"What are you really passionate about?" "What would you do if you didn't have fear?" "How can you use your life as a service to yourself, your family, and your community?" These are just a few of the challenging questions Oprah asks herself and those listening to this interview (from last week, September 8, by the way). It's a message of authenticity and real-life experience. Be you. Be true and authentic. Be the best you can be. And don't let fear hold you back.
Watch the video here.
"Dwell in possibility..." - Emily Dickinson To dwell in possibility is to claim hope. The idea of possibility strengthens the confidence we have in ourselves. “You can and you will,” it whispers. “Nothing is impossible.” I think we often get caught up in the realities of life – we’re encouraged at some point to ground our dreams and ideas so they are more attainable and more realistic. There are some things we just can’t and won’t be able to do. Face the reality. As it turns out, our reality is what we make of it. Never be afraid to dream big, to set seemingly unattainable goals, to work hard, to take action turning new ideas into reality. As Audrey Hepburn once said, “Nothing is impossible, the word itself says ‘I’m possible’!”
What is doubt saying is impossible for you?
For me, it’s achieving excellence in music performance where the most impossible task always seems to be overcoming myself – overcoming the intimidation of being vulnerable and completely exposed. It’s learning to let go of situations that are beyond my control and keeping calm in my heart. It’s setting work aside, turning off all of the creative ideas in my brain, and living.
Reality is what you make of it, friends. Will you choose to dwell in possibility?
Recently, I had the opportunity to attend a choral workshop in western Massachusetts with Alice Parker. The soft-spoken, grey-haired woman dressed in bright colors had the room of 15 attendees mesmerized for two 3-hour sessions. You’d never know she was in her mid-eighties. In addition to reflecting on her experiences (her time at Juilliard and the opportunity to work with the great Robert Shaw), Alice spoke of the qualities that make music powerful and captivating.
We spent the morning singing and improvising folk songs with a focus on accents, melody, and text. Never before have I paid such close attention to the melody! In our Western culture, we place so much emphasis on harmony that the inherent value of the melody is often lost or obscured. Alice states in her book (The Anatomy of Melody, p. xv):
Western music is the only society to list harmony right up there in the trinity of musical greats. But I don’t think it belongs there. If melody (tones) and rhythm (time) are intrinsic to human beings, then harmony is a subset of melody. It is no more on the same level as melody than vertical combinations of rhythmic figures would be equal to rhythm itself. Should we say melody, harmony, rhythm, and polyrhythms?
With this mindset in place, a room of music professionals enjoyed singing elementary-level music in unison. There was freedom and flexibility in the music-making and almost no accompaniment. What better way to teach choral music, especially for children? In the afternoon, we observed a coaching session between Alice and a high school chorus from the area. What incredible insight as to how to truly embody music and communicate its fullest potential. Lastly, Alice focused on departure from the written score and greater reliance on the ear. She also speaks about this in her book (The Anatomy of Melody, p. xxii):
I have come to realize over the years that a healthy mistrust of written music is the only proper starting point. The page doesn’t mean what it seems. It’s only a beginning (sight) not an ending (sound). . . .Does a song you know leap out at you with the immediacy of a remembered voice? Or do the symbols lie obstinately flat on the page with the attendant words similarly meaningless? To understand what I am attempting here, realize that I am trying to balance two antithetical worlds at once–those of eye and ear–and in this case, ear must always triumph not only in notes, but in the written text where a living voice must be sounding for you to begin to respond in kind. And respond, aloud, you must! Sing, argue, affirm, correct–the page does not live until you enter into its dialogue with your ear, voice, and mind.
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